Episode 16

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10th Dec 2025

Love, Personal Loss, and 9/11: Former CNN Anchor Carol Lin's Story the Network Never Showed You

When the world stopped on 9/11, millions saw Carol Lin on their screens… but no one saw what she was surviving off camera. In this gripping Call Me Friend conversation, Daryn reconnects with her former CNN colleague to uncover the truth behind Carol’s marriage, motherhood, identity, grief, and the hidden story behind her memoir, When News Breaks.

Carol Lin opens up about the pressure of broadcast news, the unraveling of her marriage, the devastating loss of her husband shortly after their daughter was born, and how motherhood, identity, and grief collided during the most public chapter of her career. This emotional episode explores love, personal loss, friendship, and the resilience it takes to rebuild your life when everything breaks at once.

What You Will Learn In This Episode

✅ How Carol Lin navigated CNN, motherhood, and grief

✅ What viewers never saw during 9/11 coverage

✅ Why writing a memoir helped her reclaim her identity

✅ How personal loss transforms love, friendship, and purpose

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Timestamps

  • 00:00 The untold truth behind Carol Lin’s story of love and loss
  • 00:35 Daryn introduces Carol and their shared CNN history 
  • 01:24 Being on air together during 9/11
  • 02:40 The unraveling of Carol’s marriage in the midst of her rising career
  • 03:23 Losing her husband and navigating early motherhood
  • 04:02 Why she wrote her memoir When News Breaks
  • 06:03 Growing up as the daughter of Chinese immigrants
  • 07:47 Misconceptions about Carol during her CNN years
  • 09:02 The ethics of telling stories that involve the people we love
  • 11:33 Motherhood, grief, and redefining her identity 
  • 13:10 What love required inside a pressured broadcast career
  • 16:00 The newsroom culture viewers never see
  • 18:45 Carol’s unforgettable Mommy and Me moment
  • 25:40 Reconnecting and finally understanding each other
  • 29:56 The universal question: how did we not know?
  • 34:18 Reconnecting with old colleagues through writing
  • 36:00 “How did I not know?” Themes from the memoir
  • 42:30 Carol and Daryn talk about love, timing, and meeting their partners
  • 43:31 Getting ready for love and doing the inner work
  • 48:55 The Mommy and Me class moment that broke the room
  • 49:59 The silence after she told them her husband died
  • 50:24 Carol grabs the diaper bag and escapes the room


Key Takeaways

🔹 Grief transforms identity, shaping the way we love and show up in the world.

🔹 Behind every CNN anchor is a deeply human story full of resilience and contradiction.

🔹 Memoirs help reveal the truth behind public personas and private pain.

🔹 Friendship becomes essential when life, career, and identity collide.


Resources


Guest Bio: Carol Lin

Carol Lin is an award-winning journalist and former CNN anchor known as the first voice viewers heard on 9/11. As a groundbreaking figure in broadcast news, she spent decades reporting major global events before stepping away following the profound loss of her husband. Her memoir When News Breaks reveals the truth behind her marriage, motherhood, identity, and the hidden challenges she carried during her years in journalism.

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Transcript

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